10 Bad Sex Habits

Do you sometimes turn off the light before having sex, because you feel more comfortable in darkness? Do you sometimes tell your sexual partner, sex has been excellent, though you haven’t felt anything? Does having sex with your husband orboyfriend resemble a scenario you have learned by heart long ago? In this article I will tell you about 10 most wide-spread bad bed habits lots of women (their lovers as well) have and why you should get rid of them. Make your sex life more exciting and varied with these tips.

Shyness in Bed

Modesty sometimes is sometimes considered as an advantage of a woman, but in bed it’s better to forget about it because it doesn’t allow a lot of your “dreams” to come true. And not only yours, men are often as conservative as some women and don’t want to experiment. Talk to your lover about sex and try to formulate your desires clearly. Fantasies and talks about it would help to discover your sexuality.

Refusal of Quick Sex

It is known that the importance of foreplay is sometimes overestimated. Try to take the initiative and turn to more vigorous actions. Undoubtedly, your lover would appreciate your control over the situation, because sometimes there is nothing more exciting than quick sex.

The Same Sex Positions

Most couples have just a pair of permanent sexual positions. This script seems to be too out of date. This is exactly the habit which makes sex monotonous and even boring. Don’t fear to put a veto on all usual sex positions and add a littleinventiveness and piquancy to your sex life.

Sex under Studied Scenario

Forget about time-management and stop planning the time of having sex. Believe that nothing would make the life of even the most pedantic yuppie more exciting as unexpected sex in an unusual place.

Sex in Darkness

Lots of women prefer to make love in darkness. There can be many reasons of it, but the first one is dissatisfaction with own appearance. Before turning off the light, think for a while: why is he going to have sex with You? Because the way you lookturns him on and there’s no need to hide yourself. Men are said to love with eyes, this is why nothing can turn your lover on as much as your naked body. So, let him see you while you are having sex. This will please you both much more.

Fake Orgasm

Play is valued in theatre and cinema but you shouldn’t abuse acting in bed. If you want to flatter you lover once again and to imitate unearthly bliss, think about the risk to bid farewell to the better sex life with real orgasm. Is the game worth the candle?

Only He Initiates Sex

Forget about sex only on His initiative. Fortunately, emancipation has exceeded social frames and vigorously intruded into private life. Such developments cannot but please your lover and you must understand that to be in control of the situation is extremely pleasant.

Serious Relationships

Laugh even in bed. Don’t be too serious: having fun together not only makes you closer, but also helps avoid awkward situations.

Silence during Sex

Compliments and talks about feelings are suitable nowhere but in bed. They increase mutual interest. So, don’t be silent, it would be useful and pleasant for you both.

Loving Yourself

It’s better to think of cellulite and other body defects before a hearty meal. In bed you should forget about all your defects. At this moment you’re the Most Wanted Woman.

Best Sex Lasts 7 to 13 Minutes

A recent study has found, that the best sex should last 7 to 13 minutes. Researchers have interviewed a large number of men and women about the ideal duration of sexual intercourse. The following data were obtained during the studypublished at “Journal of Sexual Medicine”. It occurs, that sex lasting less than 3minutes is considered as too short, while more than 13 minutes of sex are regarded to as too long. 7 to 13 minutes were rated as most “desirable” length of time of sex.

So, maybe, a great sex all night long is only a myth? And it means, that one could fully satisfy their sexual partner with only three minutes of sex? After having read these data one automatically poses the following question: were the respondents, who took part at the research, able to estimate the length of time of sexcorrectly? And in general, who is able to watch the time, when having sex?

Anyway, each couple so to say elaborates their own, “effective” duration of sex, as well as sexual positions they like most and that bring maximum satisfaction. I hope, you and your sexual partner have already found them and enjoy a great sex.

Sex without Orgasm Is Bad for Women’s Health

Scientists came to conclusion that women need to experience orgasm duringsex, otherwise, the woman may develop such diseases as mastopathy or myoma due to stagnated blood. When lacking orgasm the female body undergoes serious stress. Arousal leads to increased levels of the hormoneestrogen and the blood surges to the reproductive organs. During orgasm the stagnated blood is removed and the body is cleansed of pathogenic bacteria.

When the orgasm is not reached, blood stagnates and the body may develop various diseases. At first, scientists proved that lack of orgasm has negative effect on health in males. According to the data collected by specialists at the Royal University in Belfast, the males, who experience orgasm regularly while having sex, live twice as long as the ones who experience it rarely.

How often you have sex in no less important for health in males and females. Scientists recommend to go for intimacy as often as possible to those who wish to maintain their health and youth.

Snoring and Sex

About 70% of men and 40% of women snore while sleeping at night. Snoring can be really dangerous for one’s health, but it also has a negative effect on thesexual life of the couple. The night trills affect the life of every forth couple. There are also many people, who just prefer to sleep in separate rooms, because one of the couple snores. A recent study conducted by British medics shows, that therelationships of the couple, one of who regularly snores at night, can become really bad.

Snoring and Sleep Deprivation

The half of all interviewed couples even refuses of having sex. This happens, because those suffering from the partner’s snore start feeling physical and emotional exhaustion as a result of sleep deprivation. If one suffers from lack of sleep, they can’t perform those duties, which are required of them in life. If this is your case, too, then sex can become the last thing you are interested in, when you feel too tired.

The Snoring Spouse

If one of the couple snores, the relationships become stressed. It can even drive you to despair, when you are trying to sleep, but your husband is snoring so loudly, that even the neighbors can hear him. And even turning to another side doesn’t help: he just falls asleep at the same moment and starts snoring again.

Many women just don’t want to have sex with the snoring spouse, who regularly doesn’t let them sleep.

Why Snoring Is Unhealthy

You probably know, that snoring can be a symptom of hypertension and other cardiovascular diseases, which, in turn, can sooner or later lead to erectile dysfunction of the snoring man. And this can no longer be called a full-fledged relationship. It’s better to treat snoring, and the sooner, the better. You may inform yourself about the methods or snoring treatment in article “Why People Snore and How to Stop Snoring”.

First Date Sex

Only woman herself can decide whether she should go for the first date sex or do it sometime later in the dating process. British scientists, however, warn that most females are disappointed in the first date sex. A study was conducted to establish this fact. The scientists asked a large number of women to do the study’s questionnaire and then made the conclusion that intimacy is not something we can rush with. Why?

Women Regret First Date Sex

The results of the questionnaire showed that about half of the women regrethaving sex on the first date, and in addition most of the women reported that their expectations about the sex were not met.

In contrast to women, 80% of the questioned males were satisfied with the first date sex.

Woman’s Feeling after One Night Stand

How come women and men feel so differently about the same question? As professor Anne Campbell noted the female respondents feel like they were “used” and “fell low” after the first date sex. Other say that they were disgusted and it felt unpleasant, they expected something much better, and that the sex turned out to be simply disgusting.

Why Women Want Casual Sex

Nevertheless, women often enough decide to go with the casual sex. One of the reasons that make them go for the first date sex is that during the ovulation phase, between the days 10 and 18 of the cycle, their sexual desire and arousal rise.

During the ovulation phase women tend to prefer short-term relationships.

Why Women Regret One-Night Stand

But once those days pass – 58% of women state that they would never go for it again. The scientists say that women are not very good with the one-night stands and prefer quality over quantity. The females most of all did not like not the fact that the relationship was short-lived but that, as they believe, the partner did not appreciate them at their true worth. As the results of the study showed, women believe that such lack of appreciation implies that the male believes that she does it with anyone.

Interesting Facts about Condoms

Despite the fact that condoms are publicly available, people very often disregard this contraception method. According to a research done by Durex in 2003, the Chinese have the highest tendency to have sex with a new partner without the use of condoms (70%), the next are the Czechs (58%) and the British (34%). The French take the greatest care of their sexual safety – only 9% are ready to risk their sexual health. Here are some interesting facts about condoms you didn’t know.

• The first mentioning of condom-like means used to practise safe sex is dated to Ancient Egypt, where they were made out of skins of various animals.
• 5 000 000 000 units are sold annually.
• There are more than 100 brands on the market.
• It is considered that the first condom that looked like its modern analog was found in 1564 by anatomist Gabriel Fallopius.
• Women buy 40-70% of all condoms on the market.
• In the 16th century condoms were made of flax fibre.
• In the 18th century they were made out of intestine of various animals or fish skins.
• In 1844 Charles Goodyear took out the first patent to manufacture condoms made out of rubber.